Tailored-Tuesday Mantra: Rejection
Peace, Love and Healing today friends. Happy Tuesday!! We have so much on our mind and on our plates in life. We want so much and we want even more from the people we love and have in our life. As you look back on your life, you will realize that many of the times you thought you were being rejected from someone or something you wanted, you were in fact being redirected to someone or something you needed. Seeing this when you’re in the midst of feeling rejected, however, is quite tough. I know because I’ve been there.
As soon as someone critiques, criticizes, and pushes you away – as soon as you are rejected, understand and remind yourself in the moment of rejection the other person or situation is NOT worthy of YOU and your particular journey.
Rejection is necessary medicine; it teaches you how to reject relationships and opportunities that aren’t going to work, so you can find the right ones that will. It doesn’t mean you aren’t good enough; it just means someone else failed to notice what you have to offer. Which means you now have more time to improve yourself and explore your options. Will you be bitter for a moment? Absolutely. Hurt? Of course, you’re human.
There isn’t a soul on this planet that doesn’t feel a small fraction of their heart break at the realization of rejection. Honestly, if you constantly feel like someone is not treating you with respect, check your price tag. Perhaps you’ve subconsciously marked yourself down. Because it’s YOU who tells others what you’re worth by showing them what you’re willing to accept for your time and attention. If you don’t value and respect yourself, wholeheartedly, no one else will either. All too often we let the rejections of our past dictate every move we make thereafter. Your worth isn’t contingent upon other people’s acceptance of you.
Let go in Peace!