Loving Yourself - The Secret Of Finding True Love

If there's someone who knows how not to find true love, it's single ol me lol. So let me tell you how not to find it. Continuously searching for it. If there's anything I've learned about love it's that longing for what you don't have, will get you more of that not having it. That goes for most things in life. You constantly worry about not having money and it becomes increasingly difficult to get more of it. It seems like an unwritten law of this world we live in.

Love seems like an anomaly whose riddle cannot be solved or simply summarized. So why is the common phrase, "love happens when you least expect it" so popular? Maybe because it holds one of love's secrets within it.

Love is not about finding a companion because you're feeling alone or searching for something you don't already have. Did you ever think that the relationships you've been in haven't worked out because you weren't ready for it? Maybe because you were filling a void in your own life.

I believe that focusing on being the best version of yourself in the present, will allow you to attract your best possible soulmate. Appreciating the moment and focusing on loving yourself, are the first steps to finding the true love you desire. So take a big gaze in the mirror and make sure you're giving that person in the reflection love first before you start searching for love from another and you may unexpectedly stumble on another who's doing exactly the same.